Abstract
This paper is aimed at
understanding the research conducted on the stress and stressors involved in
the daily life of parents of children who have Autism. Parenting a child who
has been diagnosed with Autism can be a challenge without a good support
system, special parenting techniques and in some cases without a proper
diagnosis. Parents of Autistic children face social, personal, financial
conditions that can be daunting. Such situations for any person can be a source
of stress and give rise to stressors that need proper management. If these
stressors are not handled with the right means, then they can take a toll on
the parents mental and then eventually physical health as well. This paper
suggests some techniques and strategies that would benefit this population in
particular. These strategies are used and designed considering the specific
situation faced by these parents with a child who suffers from Autism.
Target Population- Parents of Children having Autism
The
number of children diagnosed today with Autism, medically known as Autism
Spectrum Disorders (ASD) is much more than it was until few years ago. The CDC
reports that today 1 out of 88 children is identified with ASD, where as in
2007 it was 1 out of 150 children (www.cdc.gov)
and looking at data from previous years, it shows that the diagnosis has
increased by 23 % every year.
This
means that today the number of parents with children with Autism is also higher
than it was few years. What is Autism? Autism is defined by APA as ‘the most
severe developmental disability’. It appears ‘within the first three years of
life, autism involves impairments in social interaction’ (Encyclopedia of
Psychology, APA). The symptoms and behavior for people with autism can vary
from not being aware of other people’s feelings to hurting themselves, from
unusual eating, sleeping habits to have trouble communicating. Baird et al
(2003) in their study on diagnosis of Autism defined Autism as ‘behaviorally
defined disorder that’s the end point of several organic aetiologies’. At first Autism was
linked to many prenatal exposure to chronic conditions, and then their study
connected Autism to neurobiological disorder. They also add that the diagnosis
of Autism typically happens between the ages of 2 and 3 years of age, which is
conflict with some other researches, but their point on surveillance of the
child’s behavior make it a valid age for diagnosis. This brings us to the age
that Autism is mostly diagnosed is early child hood years and preschool age. Ostreling
& Dawson (1994) did a study to understand the
Stress
prediction ad management in parents of children diagnosed with Autism.
right age for diagnosing Autistic children, and
their study said that though Autism is not usually diagnosed until age 4, but
parents of these children report observing something unusual even before age
one. They talk about using ‘retrospective’ technique to diagnose Autism in
children younger than age four and having involvement by parents in reporting,
observing to help with diagnosis. This study and the general idea that Autistic
children show signs of their condition at a young age and that it
has genetic factors related to it, makes it understandable what the parents of
these children go through. It makes it more significant that the lives of
parents with children having Autism can be stressed.
Wolf et al (1996) reported in their study
that parents of Autistic children tend to have a higher stress level than
parents of children with Down syndrome or parents of developmentally average
children. They added that parents of Autistic children had a compromise on
their well being due to many reasons that include the unpredictable and the
uncertain nature of Autism. Parenting to toddlers and young children can
require lots of patience, understanding and organization to make it a stress
free experience and successful. When the same experience changes for a bigger
challenge and the children are facing disabilities like Autism, the stress for
the parents can increase. This stress can be due to the parenting needs of the
child, and for many other reasons as well that can act as stressors. Dumas et al (1991) studied stress faced while
parenting by parents of children diagnosed with Autism, Down syndrome and
behavior disorders. Their results clearly showed that parents of children with
Autism faced much higher levels of stress due to behavioral difficulties.
Common
Stressors for this population and related health issues
There
are some stressors that are common among the population of parents of Autistic
children because of some specific challenges that these parents face due to the
disability suffered by their child. This can include parenting challenges and
other conditions like social support, financial constraints and family
structure as well. Parents of more than one child may face stress when they
observe the effects of their Autistic child on other siblings. Smith &
Perry (2005) report that siblings of Autistic children feel neglected and
pressured to excel and take household responsibilities. Finding the balance
between all children can be a major stressor for these parents as the Autistic
child may demand and require more attention that their siblings.
Parents
feel stress in their marriage as well and mothers report to have facing more
stress than fathers of Autistic children due to being more involved in
parenting and caring for the child.
Dunn
et al (2001) study shows that parents of Autistic children face more marital
strain and dissatisfaction, lack of marital intimacy as compared to parents of
normal kids. The parents of Autistic children can get effects of the parenting
challenge of the Autistic child on their own relationship which can act as a
stressor when trying to run a functional family and work as partners.
The
role of parents is major in an Autistic child’s life as they run the day to day
life of the child. The behavioral symptoms may vary in every child, but the
lack of understanding, social skills and inability to communicate and showing
unusual is very common (mayoclinic.com).
This
was concluded by White et al (2009) as well when their study results showed
that anxiety is very common among children with Autism Spectrum disorder (ASD)
and these children do not show anxiety that would be considered age
appropriate.
For
parents of Autistic children, managing small to major tasks in daily life can
actually turn in chronic stress (a form of stress that you get used to because
it is so often in your life) that can eventually start effecting their own
health.
Depression
and isolation are some general health issues that can develop among parents of
Autistic children as result of chronic stress.
Polawsky
et al (2013) while looking at the parental reaction to diagnosis of their child
with Autism found that these parents went into isolation, depression and
negative feelings towards their spouses. This was found more common among
mothers who admitted to being stressed.
Parents
are also capable of neglecting their own physical and mental health when caring
for their Autistic children. It takes a lot of time and effort to learn your
child’s specific symptoms, how to handle them and help your child. In the mean
time without a good support system around, it’s not improbable that parents may
be unable to attend to their own health needs.
Stress management
strategies
1. Social support is most important
Social
support can be formal or informal, it can come from family, friends, child’s
school or neighbors. Zablotsky et al (2012) report that social support from
neighborhood seems to have significant
effect on the quality of life and stress faced by parents of children with ASD.
They also add that social support can be ‘diverse’ coming from whomever the
parents feel a connection with which can make a big difference.
A
good communication and mutual efforts with the child’s educators is also very
important. Social challenges for the children are mainly faced at schools and a
bad experience can create a high level of stress for parents. This can be
prevented if there is good and effective communication with the teachers,
school of the child especially if the child has been diagnosed with less than
sever symptoms of Autism and is able to attend school with normal kids.
- Physical activity as a family
Lang
et al (2010) report that physical activity actually benefits children and
individuals with ASD if it is specifically designed to be carried out by them.
This can be a great coping technique for the parents where after advice from
the caretaker of the child, they can get involved in some form of physical
activity with their child. This will benefit their health as well as their
child.
3.Marriage therapy and family therapy
When
you have a child with special needs in the family then they effects of that is
felt by the parents as well as other siblings. Marital therapy can be a very
good tool to help with the day to day stress that the parents relationship has
on it. The best of partners can be affected by a stressful situation like
raising a child with development disabilities. Added to that can be the
situation of other siblings as well who maybe feeling neglected and lost in the
scenario. Family therapy
can be helpful to reconnect, bond and develop strong communication about how to
deal with daily situations.
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